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Sober & Lit Podcast

Sober & Lit Podcast

By: Susan Larkin & Ruby Williams
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Are you worried you might be drinking too much? If you’ve tried cutting back your drinking, but can’t imagine your life without wine? This podcast is for you.


Sober & Lit is the podcast for women in midlife who want encouragement, support, and real strategies to live their best life without alcohol. Whether you identify as a gray area drinker, a daily drinker, are exploring how to stop drinking, or are wondering how to know if you even have a drinking problem, this show offers practical tools and honest conversations. In each episode we answer real listeners’ questions about how to stop drinking and how to stay stopped. With sober stories, empowering insights, and practical tips and tactics for living sober with mindfulness, confidence, and joy. If you're ready to explore an alcohol-free lifestyle and step into your most vibrant, “lit” life you're in the right place.


This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked:

Why can’t I drink like everyone else?

Why do I drink more than I want to?

I had weight loss surgery and why am I drinking every day now?

What is a gray area drinker?

Why can’t I stop drinking once I start?

How can I drink less during stressful times (holidays, divorce, empty nest, grief)

Is it possible to enjoy life without alcohol?

How do I cut back without quitting completely?

What’s the first step to changing my drinking?

How much alcohol is too much for a woman my age?


Every episode ends with how we and our guests feel lit with practices that support your mental health, optimizes your fitness goals and enhances personal growth. If you’re sober-curious, or alcohol-free and ready for your next amazing chapter in life, this podcast is your weekly dose of inspiration, tools, real talk, and some laughs!


© 2026 Sober & Lit Podcast
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Episodes
  • Alcohol, Menopause & Midlife Truths with Kathleen McDermott / EP 127
    Jun 16 2026

    Midlife. Menopause. Alcohol cravings.

    Coincidence... or connected?

    In this episode of Sober & Lit, Susan and Ruby welcome Kathleen McDermott, registered nurse and menopause coach, for a conversation every woman deserves to hear.

    You'll discover:

    • Why hormones can amplify alcohol cravings
    • How menopause impacts your brain and nervous system
    • Why willpower isn't the answer
    • The role of self-compassion in lasting change
    • Simple ways to feel more balanced and in control

    If you've ever thought:

    • "Why is drinking harder to manage now?"
    • "Are my hormones affecting my cravings?"
    • "Can I get through menopause alcohol-free?"

    This episode offers practical tools, compassionate guidance, and a refreshing reminder that you don't have to navigate midlife…or an alcohol-free journey…alone.

    Guest Resources for Kathleen McDermott and Women & Balance-
    Website: http://womenandbalance.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558627978641
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenandbalance/

    We Love Hearing From You

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Hosts:
    Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

    Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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    44 mins
  • Why Don't I Feel Better Sober? EP 126
    Jun 9 2026

    You quit drinking expecting to feel amazing... but what if you're feeling worse before you feel better?

    So now you're wondering:

    "Shouldn't I feel better by now?"

    In this episode of Sober & Lit, Ruby and Susan unpack a little-known part of the alcohol-free journey:

    PAWS (Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome).

    You'll discover:

    • Why recovery can feel harder than expected
    • Common symptoms of PAWS
    • How long healing may take
    • Signs your brain is actually recovering
    Tools to stay encouraged and keep going

    If you've ever thought:

    • "What's wrong with me?"
    • "Why am I still struggling?"
    • "Will I ever feel normal again?"

    This conversation is your reminder that healing isn't always linear...and sometimes the symptoms you're worried about are actually signs of progress.

    Nobody talks enough about what can happen in the first 90 days after quitting alcohol. That's exactly why I created The First 90 Days Reset Guide. Because if you're exhausted, anxious, emotional, or dealing with brain fog, you might think something is wrong with you.

    ✔️ Get your Free Guide: https://coachingwithruby.com/PAWS

    We Love Hearing From You

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Hosts:
    Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

    Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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    22 mins
  • How Sobriety Fueled Success for Entrepreneur Deborah C. Smith / EP 125
    Jun 2 2026

    What if sobriety gave you MORE... not less?

    In this episode of Sober & Lit, Susan and Ruby sit down with Deborah C. Smith... business coach, entrepreneur, and powerful example of what can happen when you stop using alcohol to cope and start reconnecting with yourself.

    Inside this conversation:

    Deborah’s story
    Alcohol, ambition + high stress entrepreneurship
    • The wake-up call that changed everything
    Finding joy, creativity + relief without wine
    • Why sobriety became her superpower
    Building a life and business that actually feels good

    If you’ve ever wondered...

    • Can I really feel lit without alcohol?
    • What happens when I stop drinking to manage stress?
    • Could sobriety open doors I never imagined?

    This one is inspiring, real, and full of hope for your own alcohol-free journey.
    ________

    Guest Resources for Deborah Smith-
    Website: Http://www.deborahcsmith.com
    Podcast - Mindset to Market: https://mindset-to-market.buzzsprout.com/
    Instagram: Http://www.instagram.com/deborah_smith_coaching
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1B3UWMF2ax/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    We Love Hearing From You

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Hosts:
    Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

    Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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    39 mins
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