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The Rebuilt Man

The Rebuilt Man

By: Coach Frank Rich
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Welcome to The Rebuilt Man, I'm Coach Frank, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and we exist here to help you become a better man, by quitting porn, and rebuilding your life. My life changed in 2019 when I finally found freedom from a 20+ year addiction to pornography, and I've made it my mission since that day to help other men, just like me & you, find the freedom you deserve. Join us and jump onboard as we provide daily tips and insights to build the necessary mindset to achieve greatness, as well as practical steps to get to the root of our addiction and build a life where pornography is no longer an option. I believe men are called to greatness in this life, and it starts with learning to control our sexual desires. Gentlemen, let's get ready to Rebuild Your Life and become the man God has called you to be. Welcome to The Rebuilt Man Let's get in to today's episode2023 Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success
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  • The Recovery System That's Keeping Men Addicted To Porn | Ep. 397

    The Recovery System That's Keeping Men Addicted To Porn | Ep. 397
    Jun 26 2026
    Get Your Copy of Porn Free Man Here:👉 www.therebuiltman.com/pornfree For nearly 100 years, the 12-Step model has been considered the gold standard for addiction recovery. And while it's helped millions of people around the world, one important question still remains: If it works so well... why are so many men still struggling with porn years—even decades—later? In this episode, Coach Frank Rich takes an honest look at the traditional recovery model and explains why many of its core principles fall short when it comes to overcoming pornography in today's digital world. Drawing from his own 30-year battle with porn addiction and his experience helping more than 1,800 men reclaim their lives, Frank breaks down the 12 biggest limitations of the 12-Step approach and introduces a different path—one focused on identity transformation rather than lifelong recovery. You'll learn why freedom isn't about white-knuckling temptation or counting sober days, but about becoming the kind of man who no longer needs porn in the first place. If you've ever felt like you've tried everything and still find yourself stuck in the same cycle, this episode will challenge what you've been taught about recovery and give you a new framework for lasting freedom. In This Episode You'll Learn: Why identifying as an addict can keep you trapped in the very identity you're trying to escape. The difference between managing addiction and experiencing true freedom. Why porn is often a symptom—not the root problem. How shame, isolation, boredom, and a lack of purpose fuel addiction. Why modern pornography requires a modern recovery framework. The hidden danger of measuring success by streaks alone. Why identity transformation always outperforms behavior modification. The role faith, discipline, brotherhood, and purpose play in lasting recovery. The core principles behind the Reboot Your Life framework. How to become the kind of man who no longer wants, needs, or desires porn. Key Takeaways Lasting freedom begins with changing your identity, not simply changing your behavior. Porn addiction is rarely about lust alone—it's often an unhealthy coping mechanism for deeper emotional and spiritual struggles. Recovery should lead to independence, leadership, and purpose—not lifelong dependence on a recovery identity. Building daily disciplines creates lasting transformation. Freedom isn't something you manage one day at a time forever—it's something you build through intentional personal growth. The goal isn't just quitting porn. The goal is rebuilding the man. Get Started With The Porn Free Man System: If this episode hit home for you, grab a copy of Porn Free Man — Coach Frank Rich's step-by-step system designed to help men break free from porn addiction, rebuild their identity, and reclaim control of their lives. 👉 www.therebuiltman.com/pornfree Included With The Book 7 Day Porn Reset Rebuilt By The Word (12-Week Bible Study) The Rebuilt Man Daily Meditations Reboot Your Life After Action Review Frank Rich Fitness Bundle & Training Library Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life program. After overcoming his own battle with porn addiction, Frank has dedicated his life to helping high-performing men break free from pornography, rebuild their identity, strengthen their faith, restore their relationships, and become the men they were created to be. Through his coaching programs, books, podcast, and brotherhood community, Frank has helped thousands of men reclaim control of their lives and create lasting transformation. – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    14 mins
  • The 10 Hidden Triggers Keeping Men Addicted To Porn | Ep. 396

    The 10 Hidden Triggers Keeping Men Addicted To Porn | Ep. 396
    Jun 24 2026

    Get Your Copy of Porn Free Man Here:👉 www.therebuiltman.com/pornfree

    Most men think they watch porn because they're horny.

    They're wrong.

    After helping more than 1,800 men break free from porn, Coach Frank Rich has discovered that most relapses have very little to do with lust—and everything to do with what's happening beneath the surface.

    Stress.

    Shame.

    Loneliness.

    Unresolved wounds.

    Lack of purpose.

    Self-sabotage.

    Spiritual disconnection.

    In this episode, Frank breaks down the 10 most common triggers that keep men trapped in the cycle of porn addiction and explains why lasting freedom begins when you stop treating porn as the problem and start addressing the root cause.

    In This Episode

    • Why porn is often a symptom, not the problem

    • The biggest mistake men make in recovery

    • The 10 hidden triggers driving relapse

    • How stress, shame, and loneliness fuel addiction

    • Why successful men often struggle with self-sabotage

    • The connection between purpose, identity, and freedom

    • How dopamine addiction impacts recovery

    • Why lasting freedom requires rebuilding the man

    Key Takeaway

    Most men spend years fighting porn.

    But the real battle is happening underneath the addiction.

    When you identify the trigger, you can finally begin healing the root cause and creating lasting freedom.

    Get Started With The Porn Free Man System:

    If this episode hit home for you, grab a copy of Porn Free Man — Coach Frank Rich's step-by-step system designed to help men break free from porn addiction, rebuild their identity, and reclaim control of their lives.

    👉 www.therebuiltman.com/pornfree

    Included With The Book

    • 7 Day Porn Reset

    • Rebuilt By The Word (12-Week Bible Study)

    • The Rebuilt Man Daily Meditations

    • Reboot Your Life After Action Review

    • Frank Rich Fitness Bundle & Training Library

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife

    About Coach Frank Rich

    Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life program. After overcoming his own battle with porn addiction, Frank has dedicated his life to helping high-performing men break free from pornography, rebuild their identity, strengthen their faith, restore their relationships, and become the men they were created to be.

    Through his coaching programs, books, podcast, and brotherhood community, Frank has helped thousands of men reclaim control of their lives and create lasting transformation.

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    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    23 mins
  • How To Rebuild Trust After Porn Destroyed Your Marriage (Q&A Episode) | Ep. 395

    How To Rebuild Trust After Porn Destroyed Your Marriage (Q&A Episode) | Ep. 395
    Jun 22 2026

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife

    What do you do when your wife discovers your porn use and says she no longer trusts you?

    In this Q&A episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich and Coach Arnold tackle one of the most painful challenges men face in recovery: rebuilding trust after betrayal.

    If you've apologized a hundred times but nothing seems to change, this conversation will help you understand why trust isn't rebuilt through words—it's rebuilt through action, consistency, honesty, and becoming a different man.

    You'll learn why betrayal trauma is real, how pornography impacts your wife's sense of safety and security, and what practical steps you can take to begin restoring connection in your marriage.

    Most importantly, you'll discover that rebuilding trust starts with rebuilding yourself.

    In This Episode:

    • Why apologies alone won't rebuild trust

    • Understanding betrayal through your wife's eyes

    • The truth about betrayal trauma

    • Why consistency matters more than perfection

    • How to stop focusing on saving the marriage and start focusing on changing yourself

    • The role honesty and transparency play in recovery

    • Why many wives feel chosen second to the women on the screen

    • How pursuing and dating your wife again helps restore connection

    • What it actually takes to become a trustworthy man

    Key Takeaways:

    • Trust is rebuilt through actions, not promises.

    • Your wife needs evidence of change, not explanations.

    • Recovery must become bigger than saving your marriage.

    • Consistency creates safety.

    • The fastest way to rebuild trust is to become a different man.

    • Start choosing your wife daily through your actions, attention, and pursuit.

    Get Started With The Porn Free Man System:

    If this episode hit home for you, grab a copy of Porn Free Man — Coach Frank Rich's step-by-step system designed to help men break free from porn addiction, rebuild their identity, and reclaim control of their lives.

    👉 www.therebuiltman.com/pornfree

    Included With The Book

    • 7 Day Porn Reset

    • Rebuilt By The Word (12-Week Bible Study)

    • The Rebuilt Man Daily Meditations

    • Reboot Your Life After Action Review

    • Frank Rich Fitness Bundle & Training Library

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife

    About Coach Frank Rich

    Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life program. After overcoming his own battle with porn addiction, Frank has dedicated his life to helping high-performing men break free from pornography, rebuild their identity, strengthen their faith, restore their relationships, and become the men they were created to be.

    Through his coaching programs, books, podcast, and brotherhood community, Frank has helped thousands of men reclaim control of their lives and create lasting transformation.

    –

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
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    17 mins
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