In this episode we are joined by Brother Mizan, a Marriage Coach. Mizan has his own TikTok page – @advice.with.mizan and Instagram page – @advicewithmizan. You can also contact Mizan directly via email: info@themarriageclinic.co.uk

Mizan discusses the complexities of marriage counselling, the causes of divorce, and the challenges faced by individuals in the marriage search. He emphasises the importance of communication, compatibility, and the need for healing from past traumas. Mizan also addresses the role of faith in counselling, the impact of societal views on divorce, and offers practical advice for those preparing for marriage. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding oneself and setting realistic expectations in the search for a spouse.

00:00 Introduction

01:58 Marriage Counselling

04:12 When do people need marriage coaching?

05:02 What are the main causes of divorce today?

06:49 Why are British Muslims finding it difficult to get married?

09:23 Key Elements of a Healthy Marriage

11:18 Conflict Resolution in a marriage

13:10 Incorporating faith into Counselling without judgment

17:10 Red Flags in a Marriage

18:23 Overcoming Trauma from a Divorce/previous marriage

21:31 Unhealed Trauma from unlawful relationships

23:22 Can Abusers Change?

28:04 How to prepare for marriage

29:13 Standards vs. Unrealistic Expectations

32:07 The Role of Apps in the Marriage Search

33:41 Family Involvement: Advice or Control?

35:43 Delaying telling a potential that they are divorced

37:46 Fear-Based Marriages

39:44 Society Perception: Divorced Man v Divorced Woman

40:41 Is Marriage seen as Growth or Social Validation?

42:16 Green Flags vs. Red Flags

42:26 Are British Muslims Emotionally unavailable but Spiritually articulate?

44:30 Solutions to Finding a Spouse

45:35 Game: Red Light / Green Light

47:15 Rapid Fire Round

48:48 How to contact Mizan

49:18 Farewell