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A lot of people want to help vulnerable children, but few of us stop to ask the hardest question: what if we are the problem? Our support of children in adversity could be fueling family separation and making the situation worse. Dr. Laura Horvath sits down with Dr. Rebecca Nhep (Better Care Network) and Elli Oswald (Faith to Action Initiative) to unpack “radical courage” in global child welfare and care reform.

Our guests discuss how embracing truth required us to change long-held assumptions with humility, publicly challenge orphanage models, and face our own culpability in power dynamics. They candidly share when being courageous made them the focus of uncomfortable power dynamics within their communities and careers.

Elli reflects on the courage of families on the ground, including parents navigating poverty, disability, and lack of services who may see residential care as their only option. Rebecca pushes us to reframe the common “abandonment” narrative and to take an honest inward look at the stories that make donors feel like saviors. Rebecca and Elli share their views on the topic addressed in our prior episode (Barna Study) . She talks about how research on Christian support for institutional care reflects both positive and negative trends for change.She explains why action is slow to follow belief, why boldness must stay compassionate, how change requires listening well before speaking, and speaking with kindness presumed.

Then we get practical about donor responsibility, the power attached to money, and what mutual partnership requires when evidence points toward family-based care, deinstitutionalization, and stronger child protection systems. We also address the “rice pot” problem of fundraising and marketing, plus the real safeguarding risks that can emerge when children become the commodity. The goal stays simple and demanding: keep a North Star on children’s best interests, even when it costs us comfort, reputation, or relationships.

If you care about family strengthening,

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Travel on International Mission, meet local leadership and work alongside them. Exchange knowledge, learn from one another and be open to personal transformation. Step into a 25 year long story of change for children in some of the poorest regions on Earth.

https://www.helpingchildrenworldwide.org/mission-trips.html

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Organize a Rooted in Reality mission experience for your service club, church group, worship team, young adult or adult study. No travel required. Step into the shoes of people in extreme poverty in Sierra Leone, West Africa, Helping Children Worldwide takes you into a world where families are facing impossible choices every day.

Contact support@helpingchildrenworldwide.org to discuss how.

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Home can disappear in a single night but the memory of it can keep you alive for years. We sit down with Emmanuel Mohammed Nabieu, known as Nabs, to begin a multi-part Child’s View journey that starts before conflict, before separation, and before survival becomes the only goal. Nabs takes us to Sami, his small village in Sierra Leone, where everyone is family, children learn by working and playing side by side, and nights are filled with laughter and stories under the moonlight.

We talk about the people who formed him long before he became a global advocate for family-based care and orphan prevention. You’ll hear about his grandmother Sato, a master storyteller whose mermaid tale makes honesty unforgettable, and the proverb that still guides him. Nabs also shares the lesson his uncle teaches with a real fire, showing why “family is the flame that keeps us warm” and what happens when the wood is pulled apart. Along the way, we remember the friendships, village celebrations, and big dreams that grew in the middle of a rural village - a community in deep poverty that never lacked love.

Then the atmosphere shifts. Strangers pass through carrying babies and fear, adults whisper warnings, and the first gunshots turn a familiar place into confusion and terror. This part ends where his long journey begins, anchored by one steady longing: to go back home, back to family, back to the fire. If you care about child welfare, global health, ethical missions, trauma and resilience, or strengthening families and communities, this story will stay with you. Subscribe, share this with someone who cares about protecting children, and leave a rating and review to help more listeners find Optimistic Voices.

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Ninety percent of US Christians agree children thrive best in families. So why do so many of us still send money to orphanages and residential care? The latest Barna study puts real numbers on a problem we can’t hand-wave anymore: 28% of Christians report supporting orphanages or children’s homes, totaling an estimated $4.5 billion a year. That’s not a villain story. It’s a discipleship, storytelling, and “what do I do now?” story.

We talk with Julie Walton, Head of Research and Learning at the Martin James Foundation, about what the Barna research (commissioned by Faith to Action) reveals beneath the surface. We dig into misconceptions about why children are placed in institutions, why the word “orphanage” carries emotional and spiritual weight, and why child sponsorship can feel so personal while still missing the bigger goal of family-based care. We also explore the real gap between belief and behavior, including the “feasibility gap” that keeps donors defaulting to familiar giving channels.

The conversation gets practical and honest about the role of churches, mission trips, and proximity. Orphanage trips have shaped people’s faith, but child safeguarding and dignity demand that we rethink how we create meaningful engagement without harming children. We also discuss the surprising finding that younger generations are giving more to residential care and how to invite their passion toward family strengthening, family preservation, and community-based child welfare.

If you’re ready to move from good intentions to better impact, listen now, then subscribe, share the episode, and leave a rating and review so more people can join the shift toward families.

And for Laura: makin' bacon pancakes with auntie the bird:

Think Global, Do Justice Website

Passionate about your faith and making a difference in the world? Check out this podcast!

________

Travel on International Mission, meet local leadership and work alongside them. Exchange knowledge, learn from one another and be open to personal transformation. Step into a 25 year long story of change for children in some of the poorest regions on Earth.

https://www.helpingchildrenworldwide.org/mission-trips.html

******

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Organize a Rooted in Reality mission experience for your service club, church group, worship team, young adult or adult study. No travel required. Step into the shoes of people in extreme poverty in Sierra Leone, West Africa, Helping Children Worldwide takes you into a world where families are facing impossible choices every day.

Contact support@helpingchildrenworldwide.org to discuss how.

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Family Empowerment Advocates support the work of family empowerment experts at the Child Reintegration Centre, Sierra Leone. Your small monthly donation, prayers, attention & caring is essential. You advocate for their work to help families bring themselves out of poverty, changing the course of children's lives and lifting up communities. join

Support the show

Helpingchildrenworldwide.org