Masking is not simply pretending. Often, it is a way of staying safe, fitting in, or avoiding judgement. But over time, constantly monitoring yourself can become exhausting.

In this episode, we explore what masking is, why people do it, and the psychological cost of always “holding it together”. We look at masking through a therapy-informed lens, including neurodivergence, anxiety, emotional regulation, relationships, and work.

We also discuss what it means to feel psychologically safe enough to mask less, and how small steps towards boundaries, self-awareness, safe relationships, and self-trust can help people feel less pressure to perform.

Why do some days feel manageable while others feel overwhelming, even when the demands look the same?

In this episode of Inside the Mind: Beyond the Desk, Chartered Psychologist Karen Beckett and Occupational Therapist Dr Áine O’Dea explore sensory regulation and how the brain and nervous system respond to everyday demands.

Sensory regulation refers to the ways our bodies and brains manage incoming sensory information and maintain a state where we can think clearly, focus and engage with the world around us. Throughout the day our nervous system is constantly adjusting to noise, light, movement, social interaction and cognitive demands. When regulation is balanced, we are able to concentrate, manage emotions and respond flexibly to challenges.

However, when the sensory load becomes too high or when the nervous system is already under pressure, people may experience overwhelm, irritability, fatigue, difficulty concentrating or a sense of shutting down. These experiences are common for many adults but can be particularly significant for neurodivergent individuals whose sensory systems may process information differently.

Drawing on perspectives from psychology and occupational therapy, Karen and Áine discuss how sensory regulation operates across work and everyday life. They explore how factors such as stress, cognitive load, environments and emotional demands influence the nervous system and why people often move between states of overstimulation, exhaustion or disengagement.

The conversation also looks at practical ways people can support their own regulation. Small strategies such as movement, sensory breaks, managing stimulation levels and building moments of recovery into the day can help stabilise the nervous system and improve focus, wellbeing and resilience.

Understanding sensory regulation allows us to move away from blaming ourselves for feeling overwhelmed and instead recognise the interaction between the brain, body and environment.

Inside the Mind: Beyond the Desk explores how different brains experience work, life and regulation through conversations grounded in psychology and occupational therapy.

This podcast is sponsored by Codex.
Codex is Ireland’s largest B2B workplace solutions company, supporting thousands of organisations in designing environments that help people work better and feel better. In partnership with AsIAm, Ireland’s national autism charity, Codex has launched the Thrive by Codex x AsIAm collection, featuring 34 inclusive office products designed to support focus, comfort and wellbeing.

Codex is leading the way in neuroinclusion, helping create workplaces where everyone can thrive.

Learn more at: www.codex.ie/neuroinclusion-thrive-by-codex

What does psychological wellbeing actually mean in everyday life and work?

In this episode of Inside the Mind: Beyond the Desk, Chartered Psychologist Karen Beckett and Occupational Therapist Dr Áine O’Dea explore the foundations of psychological wellbeing and why it matters more than ever in modern workplaces and daily life.

Psychological wellbeing is often reduced to ideas of happiness or stress management, but the reality is far more complex. Our wellbeing is shaped by how our brain processes information, how our nervous system responds to pressure, and how we regulate emotions, attention and energy across the day. When these systems are under strain, people may experience burnout, overwhelm, reduced focus, and difficulty maintaining balance between work and personal life.

Drawing on perspectives from psychology, occupational therapy and nervous system science, this conversation explores how factors such as emotional regulation, cognitive load, sensory environments, and executive functioning influence our wellbeing. Karen and Áine discuss how different brains experience stress differently, particularly for neurodivergent adults who may navigate workplaces and daily routines that are not designed with neurological differences in mind.

The episode also examines the role of the nervous system in wellbeing. When the body is in a constant state of alert or shutdown, it becomes much harder to think clearly, manage emotions, or sustain productivity. Understanding these patterns can help people recognise early warning signs and develop strategies that support regulation, resilience and recovery.

Rather than focusing on quick fixes, this episode looks at practical ways individuals and organisations can support psychological wellbeing. From creating environments that reduce cognitive overload, to building sustainable routines and improving self-awareness, the discussion highlights small but meaningful shifts that can make a difference.

Whether you are navigating workplace stress, supporting others in professional settings, or simply curious about how the brain and nervous system shape wellbeing, this episode offers insight into what it means to support psychological health in a realistic and sustainable way.

Inside the Mind: Beyond the Desk explores how different brains experience work, life and regulation. Through conversations grounded in psychology and occupational therapy, we unpack the science behind everyday challenges and what can help people function and flourish.

This podcast is sponsored by Codex.Codex is Ireland’s largest B2B workplace solutions company, supporting thousands of organisations in designing environments that help people work better and feel better. In partnership with AsIAm, Ireland’s national autism charity, Codex has launched the Thrive by Codex x AsIAm collection, featuring 34 inclusive office products designed to support focus, comfort and wellbeing.

Codex is leading the way in neuroinclusion, helping create workplaces where everyone can thrive.

Learn more at: www.codex.ie/neuroinclusion-thrive-by-codex