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Alone in Japan

A Journey to the Future

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Alone in Japan

By: Tom Feiling
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No sex. No kids. No future?


When Tom Feiling moved to Tokyo as a student in the early nineties, Japan was a beacon of the future: a rising superpower, a technology giant, and a global symbol of prosperity, civility and success. When he returned twenty-four years later, the country was still a sign of things to come—but, he began to realize, it was no longer a beacon. It was a warning.

This book offers a unique portrait of life in contemporary Japan, from the quiet of its furthest flung villages to the dynamism of its megacities. It tells the story of how, from the mid-seventies onwards, Japanese society unknowingly embarked on a vast, silent process of transformation that is still unfolding today. The country is still peaceful; it is still prosperous. But the population is shrinking. As things stand, it will fall by a third with each new generation.

Travelling through shrines and bars, rice fields and mango farms, coffee shops and old peoples’ homes, Feiling meets those affected by, and driving, this transformation. Through countless interviews and extensive research, he weaves together a powerful account of how and why men and women are ceasing to pair off and have kids. He reveals how sexual appetites and behaviours are both shaped by, and reshaping the evolving economy, and considers the risks – and the opportunities – of the rise in solo living in Japan, and beyond.

Clear-sighted and surprising, Alone in Japan is a portrait of love, sex and death in contemporary Japan that should provoke and engage us all. It is an electrifying portrait of a nation on the brink by one of the most original reporters working today.

© Tom Feiling 2026 (P) Penguin Audio 2026

21st Century Anthropology Asia Cultural & Regional Modern Travel Writing & Commentary Imperial Japan Socialism
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A beautiful, measured meditation … This, Feiling points out, is our future too … All the more reason or us to take a close interest in what works – and doesn’t in Japan (Christopher Harding)
Alone in Japan is an excellent and humane piece of reporting … [it] gives a compelling sense of Japan today. Feiling is a sympathetic, fair-minded interviewer, and his descriptions of urban and rural Japanese life are atmospheric and evocative … A sensitive and thoughtful book
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I really enjoyed listening to this book. It gave me so much more understanding of how the Japanese people think and how their attitude to work, politeness and privacy has affected their everyday lives. Both in the countryside and the cities

A very absorbing look into what makes japan tick

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Narration by the author was terrific. I'm going to Japan soon for two weeks and this will be an excellent primer
to go beyond what tourists usually see.

Factual yet absorbing.

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This is a fascinating book. So often Japan does stuff before the rest of us and this book explores lots of features that may become commonplace in developed nations with time.

Lots of fertiliser for the brain

Visionary

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Well read, good story line, good pace & Im a fussy listener. I’ve been wanting to travel to Japan. It seems a country of contrasts. It will remain on my list but won’t be rushing to visit. It may be completely different to Tom’s account by the time I get there!

Great account of Japan

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interesting and thought provoking, author doesn't fail to see irony of a childless gen xer exploring the tragic decline of civilisation brought on by people in Japan who have pursued the same life priorities as him, to the detriment of their country's very existence.

excellent

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